Comments on: Is this really important a few years from now? http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/ My very own mini, personalised, parenting resource. A cyber filing cabinet of parenting articles and links. I love sharing my children's favourite sites, online games, crafts and exchanging childcare stories and parenting issues faced with other parents. Thu, 17 May 2012 07:51:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: pablopabla http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-11832 pablopabla Wed, 09 May 2007 05:58:54 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-11832 Once a loyar, always a loyar. LOL! <strong>Why so modest. Say lah, loyar buruk. Hahaha.</strong> Once a loyar, always a loyar. LOL!

Why so modest. Say lah, loyar buruk. Hahaha.

]]> By: pablopabla http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-11504 pablopabla Tue, 08 May 2007 04:28:42 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-11504 What I have learnt is to fight the good fight. It is healthy to state one's opinion but it is important to say the correct words by referring to self. Meaning, eg, I feel hurt when you bla bla bla. Rather than your bla bla bla make me hurt. It does have a difference though it may mean the same thing. In any event, it is important to first remember that God has put us together with our spouse in the first place and nothing is impossible to be talked over and resolved in a rational manner. <strong>Ok Ok you mean must choose fight and twist words. Lol! Just kidding you lah. I know what you mean. Thanks!</strong> What I have learnt is to fight the good fight. It is healthy to state one’s opinion but it is important to say the correct words by referring to self. Meaning, eg, I feel hurt when you bla bla bla. Rather than your bla bla bla make me hurt. It does have a difference though it may mean the same thing.

In any event, it is important to first remember that God has put us together with our spouse in the first place and nothing is impossible to be talked over and resolved in a rational manner.

Ok Ok you mean must choose fight and twist words. Lol! Just kidding you lah. I know what you mean. Thanks!

]]> By: dobbs http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-11474 dobbs Tue, 08 May 2007 01:56:15 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-11474 My Dad gave me the same piece of advice many years ago soon after I got married --- if you want to quarrel, make sure it's over something big/important. Sorry to hear you have been unwell and trust everything is under control now. Happy Mother's Day! <strong>A very Happy Mother's Day to you too! Pssst... I am embarrassed to tell you that my cross stitch is collecting dust in my drawer. :P</strong> My Dad gave me the same piece of advice many years ago soon after I got married — if you want to quarrel, make sure it’s over something big/important.
Sorry to hear you have been unwell and trust everything is under control now.
Happy Mother’s Day!

A very Happy Mother’s Day to you too! Pssst… I am embarrassed to tell you that my cross stitch is collecting dust in my drawer. :P

]]> By: sasha http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-10585 sasha Fri, 04 May 2007 07:00:39 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-10585 I cannot go to bed angry with my hubby. Its like something need to be done then i can sleep peacefully. We seldom argue, but sometimes we argue over silly things and laff about it. <strong>Wah! Sounds like you still pak tor man. Good. Good. Keep it up. Haha.</strong> I cannot go to bed angry with my hubby. Its like something need to be done then i can sleep peacefully. We seldom argue, but sometimes we argue over silly things and laff about it.

Wah! Sounds like you still pak tor man. Good. Good. Keep it up. Haha.

]]> By: michelle http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-10563 michelle Fri, 04 May 2007 03:26:39 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-10563 I am so glad I married someone who doesn't argue, else I will be the person hurling those words. Take care of yourselves, think happy thots yeah. <strong>I'm the argumentative one and no we didn't have an argument. We are at a peaceful place now. I'm just writing this post to remind myself to be less argumentative. Lol!</strong> I am so glad I married someone who doesn’t argue, else I will be the person hurling those words. Take care of yourselves, think happy thots yeah.

I’m the argumentative one and no we didn’t have an argument. We are at a peaceful place now. I’m just writing this post to remind myself to be less argumentative. Lol!

]]> By: FireHorse http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-10520 FireHorse Thu, 03 May 2007 23:21:20 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/05/03/is-this-really-important-a-few-years-from-now/#comment-10520 Life is truly short, so are you going to make some time for us to meet when I go home???? LOL, must cucuk you sikit, saying "Life is short" is the easy part, doing something about it requires a little more effort. <strong>Oh, clever hor you! Well, for that to happen, loh kong must take leave etc etc. Susah sikit ler like dat. </strong> Life is truly short, so are you going to make some time for us to meet when I go home???? LOL, must cucuk you sikit, saying “Life is short” is the easy part, doing something about it requires a little more effort.

Oh, clever hor you! Well, for that to happen, loh kong must take leave etc etc. Susah sikit ler like dat.

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