Somedays you’re the bug…… somedays you’re the windshield.
I guess that about sums it up about how most of us feel about our other halfs.
First there was a meme to name 10 good reasons why we married our spouses and now there is another one about 10 reasons why they annoy us.
Its really funny to read the 10 good reasons why they annoy us meme which is mostly written by women so far (dunno why) and most of them sound really similar.
Men! and Women! I guess most of us have issues with communication, driving, division of tasks, toilet use etc. It really is true that Men are from Venus and Women are from Mars.
We all have more or less the same issues. So how do we make sure that they’re the windshield more often than the bug? I think the answer lies with us. Change yourself first and you will watch your bug change into a windshield. So shall we all give it a try?
We should start by listing the 10 things that will make our spouses happy, work on them and then see what happens.

Good idea, focus on their plus point rtaher then the negative and change ourselves. I like the proactive attitude!
Its so easy to focus on the negative but if we try to think of the 10 things we could do to make our spouses happy and concentrate on doing those, we will find that they will automatically reciprocrate too! 🙂
MG, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus… no?
Men… they are the sun and the rain… hehhee
The sun and the rain. Hmmm… you mean we can’t do without them? Lol!
MG…how right u are!!! i try my best to focus on he positive although i know how easy it is to let the negative cloud us. 🙂
I talk only. Its easier said than done. Hehe.
Ha! You are right, and the tag is quite hard too. It took me 2 days to get it done. 😛
Yes, start a meme about how to impress our spouse. Tag me, I like this.
2 days to get it done? Good loh. That means you couldn’t think of anything negative about your spouse or found it hard to think of. 🙂
HEY!!! HAPPY MOTHERS DAY TO U!!!!
Psstt: u no come my blog edi ka?
Sasha, not only your blog. I have to reduce my blog hopping for health reasons but because I stop blog hopping, everybody oso stop hopping to my blog. WAAAHH!