Comments on: She’s not the same anymore AFTER we got married!

By: Sweetpea

Sweetpea — Mon, 16 Jul 2007 03:35:32 +0000

that’s so very nice of him.

mine is just the opposite. he will ask what i want. and if i said no need, he will really get me nothing. but that’s just him, kayu

i can’t say we still have that passion in the fire anymore, but we are comfortable. i used to ‘teh’ him a lot, but when u do a lot to a kayu, i myself ‘mou yan’ already, so i stopped lar. i cannot clap with one hand.

but in the nutshell, i guess we are comfortable with each other and we still make the occasional surprises for each other. not bad lor, hor?

One thing my hubs keep on telling me is to tell him exactly what I want him to do. “I can’t read you mind”. He is always telling me. So maybe you should tell him exactly what you want instead of saying “Nothing”. Hehe.

By: Hijackqueen

Hijackqueen — Mon, 16 Jul 2007 02:38:50 +0000

Last time my man doesn't nag and yell. Maybe eat too much of my saliver. *sigh...

Wah like dat, I better stop nagging and yelling, otherwise too much of those saliva fly around, he oso become like dat.

By: Angeleyes

Angeleyes — Sun, 15 Jul 2007 07:56:31 +0000

For us, he used to say “i’m easy” which means he’s fine with anything I suggest but now is “we go here or we do that” hehehe

Your loa-kong so nice wor… let u have all the piano stuff… my dream also to learn to play the piano again someday but I don’t think my PB will grant me that wish… LOL

By: kat

kat — Sat, 14 Jul 2007 14:44:12 +0000

When we were dating, I make him cookies and he will be impressed and eat them all up. Now I make him cookies, he eat one or two, and say it’s too sweet and fattening!!
I am thankful that he is a responsible father and husband, even though there are times we are both too tired at the end of the day for each other – him with work, me with kids.
One thing I have noticed though, I work harder at our marriage than our courtship. I guess this is a good thing??

You are right. We work harder at our marriage than during courtship.

By: sasha

sasha — Sat, 14 Jul 2007 07:25:52 +0000

almost the same…just that we talk to each other louder….stare at each other more….dun touch or hug each other that much. Other than dat..ok la

Hahaha. Talk to each other louder yes la but I thot pak tor dat time stare at each other more wut, no? Now stare angrily, last time stare lovingly izzit? Lol!

By: clair

clair — Sat, 14 Jul 2007 05:32:47 +0000

Better stamp on his forehead "Keep off, Mumgather's Property" to warn all the girls at work LOL!

Haha. That sounds like a good idea but forehead seems a bit too obvious. Maybe I'll stamp it on his chest while he is sleeping. Lol!

By: Mama BoK

Mama BoK — Fri, 13 Jul 2007 21:51:03 +0000

Wow..!! awesome.. MG..!! load him up with brownie points ya..!!

Ya Lots of brownie points! Hehe.

By: chinnee

chinnee — Fri, 13 Jul 2007 16:50:14 +0000

eversince we had qiqi, all hubby’s attention went to her….i always complain about that, but dont really mind about it

Usually its the husbands that complain that all the wife’s attention has gone to the kids. Hehe.

By: simon

simon — Fri, 13 Jul 2007 15:23:28 +0000

well i suppose two people change over the course of time, usually adapting to each other…

Hi Simon. Yes it would be good if the two halfs of a marriage influence each other to become better persons instead of the other way around.

By: Judy Leese

Judy Leese — Fri, 13 Jul 2007 11:16:21 +0000

What a lovely husband. My husband will not dream of doing anything special. He very boring one lah. Hahaha. Yes, we need to sit and reflect on the things they do for us and count our blessings.

You better hang on to him tight, tight, ok? God bless you.

Haha. Ok. I hang on tight tight.