Comments on: The eX Factor http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/ My very own mini, personalised, parenting resource. A cyber filing cabinet of parenting articles and links. I love sharing my children's favourite sites, online games, crafts and exchanging childcare stories and parenting issues faced with other parents. Sat, 31 Jul 2010 11:12:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Ju http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-501302 Ju Sat, 17 Oct 2009 18:36:18 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-501302 Ya, I agree with dobbs above that the woman is too much to ask to stay over in the first place. She is either "really" very innocent or the really bitchy sort out to compare & show the Wife while pretending to need a place to stay. Don't tell me she cannot find another accommodation. The Husband is also too much for allowing her to stay. The Husband should not have agreed. How would he feel if the Wife's Ex wants to stay over?? Ya, I agree with dobbs above that the woman is too much to ask to stay over in the first place. She is either “really” very innocent or the really bitchy sort out to compare & show the Wife while pretending to need a place to stay.

Don’t tell me she cannot find another accommodation.

The Husband is also too much for allowing her to stay.

The Husband should not have agreed.

How would he feel if the Wife’s Ex wants to stay over??

]]> By: Wen http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-61963 Wen Sat, 29 Sep 2007 02:44:44 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-61963 hmm, not me, no way!! same as vice versa. why would the husband wanna let his ex live in the hse in the first place. she very cham meh, no place to stay meh. for me, i wld tell her to book a hotel, will even book for her!! <strong>Ya lor. Its not a very desirable situtation to have the ex under the same roof even for a few nights. Hehe.</strong> hmm, not me, no way!! same as vice versa. why would the husband wanna let his ex live in the hse in the first place. she very cham meh, no place to stay meh. for me, i wld tell her to book a hotel, will even book for her!!

Ya lor. Its not a very desirable situtation to have the ex under the same roof even for a few nights. Hehe.

]]> By: Immomsdaughter http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58578 Immomsdaughter Sat, 22 Sep 2007 03:35:01 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58578 DEAD as in Kapish! <strong>Kapish eh? Haha.</strong> DEAD as in Kapish!

Kapish eh? Haha.

]]> By: dolphine http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58186 dolphine Fri, 21 Sep 2007 06:30:59 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58186 I don't really have an ex. My husband is my first. But there's this guy I went out for movie and dinner once or twice, we still smile to each other or say hi, and still work at the same place. My husband's ex, he said that he was just a replacement after she broke off with her ex, the one before my husband. It was just a short term thingy. When she got married she emailed him. Besides, she has married to elsewhere. <strong>So, no problem loh.</strong> I don’t really have an ex. My husband is my first.

But there’s this guy I went out for movie and dinner once or twice, we still smile to each other or say hi, and still work at the same place.

My husband’s ex, he said that he was just a replacement after she broke off with her ex, the one before my husband. It was just a short term thingy.

When she got married she emailed him. Besides, she has married to elsewhere.

So, no problem loh.

]]> By: Montessorimum http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58171 Montessorimum Fri, 21 Sep 2007 05:55:22 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58171 My hubby never keep in touch with his Ex. He said is over..no point. 2 of my ex still occasionally wrote to me. Just yesterday my ex wrote to me telling me his wife has passed on, leaving behind 2 young kids. Only 29...sad. But I'm not comfortable of meeting up or if my hubby wants me to meet his ex. NO way <strong>Meet oso kenot meh? Hehe.</strong> My hubby never keep in touch with his Ex. He said is over..no point. 2 of my ex still occasionally wrote to me. Just yesterday my ex wrote to me telling me his wife has passed on, leaving behind 2 young kids. Only 29…sad. But I’m not comfortable of meeting up or if my hubby wants me to meet his ex. NO way

Meet oso kenot meh? Hehe.

]]> By: Shireen http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58133 Shireen Fri, 21 Sep 2007 03:38:37 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58133 I think its ok to let ur spouse's ex sleep over. Your fren can always handcuff him to the bed during bedtime and let him loose when sun rises. No going to toilet in the middle of the nite so he has go first before going to bed. :) <strong>Oh, at first I thought you said handcuff her. Thats a bad idea. Haha. Handcuff him is ok but not her. Lol!</strong> I think its ok to let ur spouse’s ex sleep over. Your fren can always handcuff him to the bed during bedtime and let him loose when sun rises. No going to toilet in the middle of the nite so he has go first before going to bed. :)

Oh, at first I thought you said handcuff her. Thats a bad idea. Haha. Handcuff him is ok but not her. Lol!

]]> By: JoMel http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58129 JoMel Fri, 21 Sep 2007 03:22:07 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58129 dead AND buried. RIP. sorry, couldn't resist. *grins* <strong>Oh you..... ;)</strong> dead AND buried. RIP.

sorry, couldn’t resist. *grins*

Oh you….. ;)

]]> By: dobbs http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58127 dobbs Fri, 21 Sep 2007 03:19:15 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58127 Like you I agree that it's not a good idea to let hubby's ex-gf stay with you. I read FH's post and can't help thinking the ex-gf really was "too much" to ask to stay in the first place. Afterall if she was sent for training, I'm sure the company will pay for her accomodation at a hotel. <strong>I think FH mentioned that the company is paying for her hotel accomodation in another state where the conference is. She is going over to her house as a detour after the training.</strong> Like you I agree that it’s not a good idea to let hubby’s ex-gf stay with you. I read FH’s post and can’t help thinking the ex-gf really was “too much” to ask to stay in the first place. Afterall if she was sent for training, I’m sure the company will pay for her accomodation at a hotel.

I think FH mentioned that the company is paying for her hotel accomodation in another state where the conference is. She is going over to her house as a detour after the training.

]]> By: mommy of 2 angels http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58114 mommy of 2 angels Fri, 21 Sep 2007 02:57:50 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/09/21/the-ex-factor/#comment-58114 i no keep contact with my ex but my hubby ex still works with him...i am ok with that coz he never hide it from me...but of cos i cannot be buddies with her, just fren only lor! <strong>Still works with him? Doesn't it make you wonder.... Hehehe. Sorry teasing only. I guess everyday contact is immune compared to meet again after a few years type of contact.</strong> i no keep contact with my ex but my hubby ex still works with him…i am ok with that coz he never hide it from me…but of cos i cannot be buddies with her, just fren only lor!

Still works with him? Doesn’t it make you wonder…. Hehehe. Sorry teasing only. I guess everyday contact is immune compared to meet again after a few years type of contact.

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