Comments on: In-laws dynamics and family gatherings http://mumsgather.com/2007/10/09/in-laws-dynamics-and-family-gatherings/ My very own mini, personalised, parenting resource. A cyber filing cabinet of parenting articles and links. I love sharing my children's favourite sites, online games, crafts and exchanging childcare stories and parenting issues faced with other parents. Tue, 07 Sep 2010 05:36:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: Ju http://mumsgather.com/2007/10/09/in-laws-dynamics-and-family-gatherings/#comment-501301 Ju Sat, 17 Oct 2009 18:31:50 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/10/09/in-laws-dynamics-and-family-gatherings/#comment-501301 I'm not married but my married relatives do it this way: Sometimes they visit together and sometimes the wife visits alone (or with kids) while the husband does his own thing / work / watch tv / rest at home. Then the husband picks the wife up at the end and say a one-minute "hi bye" to everyone. Seems to work quite well. What do you think? I’m not married but my married relatives do it this way: Sometimes they visit together and sometimes the wife visits alone (or with kids) while the husband does his own thing / work / watch tv / rest at home. Then the husband picks the wife up at the end and say a one-minute “hi bye” to everyone. Seems to work quite well. What do you think?

]]> By: Mama BoK http://mumsgather.com/2007/10/09/in-laws-dynamics-and-family-gatherings/#comment-68396 Mama BoK Wed, 10 Oct 2007 22:26:48 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/10/09/in-laws-dynamics-and-family-gatherings/#comment-68396 I can't comment.. muahahhaha!! ok.. that was mean.. :( <strong>Good lah you...</strong> I can’t comment.. muahahhaha!! ok.. that was mean.. :(

Good lah you…

]]> By: Mommy to Chumsy http://mumsgather.com/2007/10/09/in-laws-dynamics-and-family-gatherings/#comment-68174 Mommy to Chumsy Wed, 10 Oct 2007 12:07:59 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/10/09/in-laws-dynamics-and-family-gatherings/#comment-68174 Oh i have this problem all the time. we always end up arguing and making comparisons. it's not healthy at all and sometimes i dread this kinda gathering. <strong>Whether you dread it or not depends on whose side of the family the gathering is for. Hehe.</strong> Oh i have this problem all the time. we always end up arguing and making comparisons. it’s not healthy at all and sometimes i dread this kinda gathering.

Whether you dread it or not depends on whose side of the family the gathering is for. Hehe.

]]> By: sharlydia http://mumsgather.com/2007/10/09/in-laws-dynamics-and-family-gatherings/#comment-67920 sharlydia Wed, 10 Oct 2007 02:52:19 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2007/10/09/in-laws-dynamics-and-family-gatherings/#comment-67920 Haha! this is so common, that it happens to me too! But u'r right, the key is to compromise and i'm glad that it always work out for me & my hubby. He's close to his family and i'm very close tomy family too! So we sort of have a common understanding that when it's a bday or festive gathering, we will attend. And lucky me, so far those dates havent clashed even once! <strong>Thank you for visiting my blog. :) You are lucky the dates don't clash. The fight gets worse when you live in different kampungs and its balik kampung time. Hahaha. Fortunately for me, my kampung is in Penang whereas hubby's kampung is in KL so we don't have to balik kampung. We live in his kampung. Lol!</strong> Haha! this is so common, that it happens to me too! But u’r right, the key is to compromise and i’m glad that it always work out for me & my hubby. He’s close to his family and i’m very close tomy family too! So we sort of have a common understanding that when it’s a bday or festive gathering, we will attend. And lucky me, so far those dates havent clashed even once!

Thank you for visiting my blog. :) You are lucky the dates don’t clash. The fight gets worse when you live in different kampungs and its balik kampung time. Hahaha. Fortunately for me, my kampung is in Penang whereas hubby’s kampung is in KL so we don’t have to balik kampung. We live in his kampung. Lol!

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