Comments on: Positive Vs Negative Thingking http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/ My very own mini, personalised, parenting resource. A cyber filing cabinet of parenting articles and links. I love sharing my children's favourite sites, online games, crafts and exchanging childcare stories and parenting issues faced with other parents. Mon, 13 Oct 2008 22:18:14 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.2 By: dolphine http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-219757 dolphine Wed, 21 May 2008 06:01:08 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-219757 These days I will always try to think positive... but I too have negative moments, and I talked them out to my DH, let him know how I feel... then things will be alright... <strong>Its good to have your husband as your confidante. :)</strong> These days I will always try to think positive… but I too have negative moments, and I talked them out to my DH, let him know how I feel… then things will be alright…

Its good to have your husband as your confidante. :)

]]> By: Moomykin http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-219298 Moomykin Tue, 20 May 2008 22:26:05 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-219298 I know what you mean. Most of the days I am just glad to be doing what I'm doing: a stay home mom. The times when I get negative is when I don't get to talk to hubby enough, to talk about things so the clutter in my heart and mind cannot get sorted out. Then I feel upset and abandoned. (Also got external factors cos staying together with in-laws. Sticky sometimes but thankful most of the time for their care.) <strong>Yes, the in-laws factor can be a contributory factor either positive or negative or both.</strong> I know what you mean. Most of the days I am just glad to be doing what I’m doing: a stay home mom.

The times when I get negative is when I don’t get to talk to hubby enough, to talk about things so the clutter in my heart and mind cannot get sorted out. Then I feel upset and abandoned. (Also got external factors cos staying together with in-laws. Sticky sometimes but thankful most of the time for their care.)

Yes, the in-laws factor can be a contributory factor either positive or negative or both.

]]> By: chinnee http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-218883 chinnee Tue, 20 May 2008 14:29:28 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-218883 the only thing that makes me feel negative is my nagging hubby...sigh... <strong>Must be your pregnancy hormones speaking. :)</strong> the only thing that makes me feel negative is my nagging hubby…sigh…

Must be your pregnancy hormones speaking. :)

]]> By: henny http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-214619 henny Fri, 16 May 2008 01:46:48 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-214619 Why don't you find and read a little book of Paul Arden, the title: "Whatever You Think, Think The Opposite". I just did it last week. Good book for the 'upside-down moody' mommy like us. We can see one thing from really different point of view, very interesting! <strong>Thanks for the recommendation. Sounds like an interesting title. :)</strong> Why don’t you find and read a little book of Paul Arden, the title: “Whatever You Think, Think The Opposite”. I just did it last week. Good book for the ‘upside-down moody’ mommy like us. We can see one thing from really different point of view, very interesting!

Thanks for the recommendation. Sounds like an interesting title. :)

]]> By: karenyiau http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-214614 karenyiau Thu, 15 May 2008 16:03:32 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-214614 Well, I have to stay as a working mum for now due to financial need, so I choose to think positively being a FTWM loh... :) <strong>Yes, theres no point in wishing for something else, best to enjoy what you have right now. :)</strong> Well, I have to stay as a working mum for now due to financial need, so I choose to think positively being a FTWM loh… :)

Yes, theres no point in wishing for something else, best to enjoy what you have right now. :)

]]> By: simon http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-214613 simon Thu, 15 May 2008 15:08:59 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-214613 well, these days i try to be really positive, but sometimes some people just ruin it for me... like today. well, tomorrow i'll be positive again. <strong>I hope you have a better day tomorrow and don't let them get to you. :)</strong> well, these days i try to be really positive, but sometimes some people just ruin it for me… like today. well, tomorrow i’ll be positive again.

I hope you have a better day tomorrow and don’t let them get to you. :)

]]> By: allthingspurple http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-214354 allthingspurple Thu, 15 May 2008 07:06:25 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-214354 i think lots of us are like that? some days we are blue some days we are yellow, if you know what i mean? some days i just cant wait to foist my kids on my sibling when they visit, its like, go, go, bring them out shopping, take them for food. here's the baby bag !!! but some days i just love cuddling them <strong>Oh, you're lucky. I don't have anyone to foist my kids to. Haha.</strong> i think lots of us are like that? some days we are blue some days we are yellow, if you know what i mean?

some days i just cant wait to foist my kids on my sibling when they visit, its like, go, go, bring them out shopping, take them for food. here’s the baby bag !!! but some days i just love cuddling them

Oh, you’re lucky. I don’t have anyone to foist my kids to. Haha.

]]> By: mott http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-214179 mott Thu, 15 May 2008 03:17:08 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-214179 I am definitely both. Most days, I am a robot tho.... so tired..cannot think! <strong>I know you're a robot now. LoL!</strong> I am definitely both. Most days, I am a robot tho…. so tired..cannot think!

I know you’re a robot now. LoL!

]]> By: shoppingmum http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-213574 shoppingmum Wed, 14 May 2008 15:30:29 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-213574 I'm positive on most days but when it's a bad day, it's really hard to perk up. Thank god I have blogs! <strong>Yes shoppingmum, the blogs helps perk me up when I am down. I just have to talk myself out of it by writing. Haha.<strong> I’m positive on most days but when it’s a bad day, it’s really hard to perk up. Thank god I have blogs!

Yes shoppingmum, the blogs helps perk me up when I am down. I just have to talk myself out of it by writing. Haha.

]]> By: Shooi http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-213333 Shooi Wed, 14 May 2008 06:44:07 +0000 http://mumsgather.com/2008/05/13/positive-vs-negative-thingking/#comment-213333 Try to be positive, and when starts to feel negative...rant out to positive thinking friends so that can start feel better again.. <strong>Or rant on the blog, and get your own internal positive voice back. Lol!</strong> Try to be positive, and when starts to feel negative…rant out to positive thinking friends so that can start feel better again..

Or rant on the blog, and get your own internal positive voice back. Lol!

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